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CIL on Vocations Week 3


I never cease to be amazed at how one commitment leads to another and how the unexpected seems to become the norm. Here I am writing to you from the Eternal City, Rome, on what would have been the the 92nd anniversary of my mother’s birth, surrounded by my Brothers from all over the world.

There are 49 of us representing some 38 countries remaining for the last three weeks, as 17 partners and one Brother left last weekend. Monday – Friday each week is pretty well scheduled with talks and discussion, always navigating the three main languages of our Institute (Spanish, French and English).

Unfortunately, I missed the talks by Brothers Chuey Rubio, Joseph Felix and Alvaro, our Superior General. Alan tells me all three were very good. Fortunately, the chapter we had at Techny, which caused me to miss the talks, was also very good.

The highlight of the sessions so far for me has been those presented by Br. Sean Sammon, a Marist Brother from the United States. He spoke very practically about the identity of the Brother in the Church and Religious Life prior to and after Vatican II. He addressed Community noting that such requires a free commitment to live, work, pray, and relax with a specific group of people and is meant to help us carry out our primary mission which is to love God and make God known and loved. He concluded by distinguishing between Celibacy (being unmarried) and Celibate Chastity (a way of being a sexual/intimate person).


Two and a half weeks remain so you will here from us again.

Saint John Baptist de La Salle. Pray for us.

Live Jesus in our hearts. Forever.

Br. Stephen Markham


CIL on Vocations Week 2

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Here we are at CIL in Week Two. In this international setting (Brothers and associates here from all over the world), we spend each day hearing lectures on topics related to  vocations and do some small group work.  We also pray and plan liturgies.  There is a time for fun such as our Halloween party and our trip to Assisi.  One of the highlights was the noon Angelus in the piazza at St. Peter’s on Sunday.  We had a good view of the Holy Father, and his message on Zaccheus was inspiring, though in Italian.
The Generalate community has been welcoming and gracious.  Tomorrow we celebrate the Spanish Martyrs with a special liturgy and dinner with the Generalate community.  They also hosted us last week with a very elegant meal.
My personal favorite thing to do is walk through the hall of the Superior Generals on my way to and from the CIL building.  It never fails to inspire awe as I realize that I am here so close to our heritage.  I was deeply moved seeing the written vows of the first twelve Brothers in the Archives.  I silently renewed my vows and thanked the Lord for my FSC vocation.
Lastly, I am praying for all of you.  The relic of the Founder is in the main chapel, and that is where I remember all in the District each day.
-Brother Alan Parham, FSC

CIL on Vocations in Rome

Bro. Stephen with Bro. Victor Guttierez

Bro. Stephen with Bro. Victor Gutierrez

Sixty-seven Lasallians, 56 Brothers and 11 partners, are gathered in Rome at the Generalate for a two-week CIL session with the topic of Pastoral Ministry for Vocations.  Thirty- eight districts are represented. Most of the Brothers will remain for an additional three weeks to continue the discussions.

During the first week there have been two presenters, Sister Enrica Rosanna, FMA and Brother Robert. Sister set a context for the CIL sessions with lots of stories and examples all delivered in true Italian style. Br. Robert, in true French style, reviewed the stages of development in anyone’s journey and invited us to make application to the vocation journey of a young person.

As expected the best part of the program is the richness of the relationships with Lasallians from around the world. I note I am the oldest among the group and am amazed at the many young Brothers in several parts of the world. In just the few days we have been here, I have had conversation with Brothers from Egypt, India, Hongkong, Africa, Mexico, Spain, Australia, Italy, Philippines, Malta, Malaysia, Myanmar, Vietnam, Japan, the Districts of Bogota and Colombo. The picture attached is one of Brother Victor Gutierrez, a Brother from Mexico who ministers in Japan. He is a former student of Br. James Roszak.

Br. Alan is having the time of his life. His ability to understand and speak Spanish and universal sense of humor serves him well.

We just returned from a full day at Assisi where I spent the entire day walking with two Brothers from India and one from Colombo.  So far, it is the highlight of the CIL experience for me.

-Bro. Stephen